[kellymac22]

Hi I'm shy!
(37 yr. old Female)
I recently entered into a new relationship. It's wonderful and I'm very happy.
About a month ago we became sexually active. I've noticed that my boyfriend has trouble staying hard and his erection comes and goes in spirts. This isn't the main problem because I am able to reach orgasm easily, so I just chalk it up to him being in his 40's....
The thing that is bothering me is that when he says he's climaxing he doesn't ejaculate anything, not a drop! His body tenses and shakes, he gets real hard and moans, but not a drop of anything comes out of his penis????
I'm afraid he's not able to orgasm for some reason, so he is faking one for me? Could this be? He is very sweet!
Do some men orgasm without ejaculating?
He is 44 and has never had any children???
It's a wonderful realationship and I'd like to continue it, but It's important to me to please him the way he pleases me.
I don't feel I can bring it up to him in fear of it making him self concious.
Please help? What should I try?
Thank you.

[pennypincher]

Could he possibly be experiencing retrograde ejaculation? In that case, the semen goes into the bladder. Look it up on the web for more information.

[Grahamcracker]

Consider that his prostate may be enlarged. I don't know but it is an idea.