Sexually Transmitted Diseases

[livingwith]

i’m 56 yrs old. never thought this could happen to me. i had a hysterectomy starting at age 24. i met a man a year ago and knew within a couple of weeks something was wrong. i went to the doctor and had to have surgery as soon as possible. i had moderate dysplasia. that wasn’t the problem. i had sores there, thats what i went for. they said they could see nothing. well a year later i had pain so bad i went back. not only did my dysplasia go up a grade to severe, i also have herpies [...Read the full article

[ChristineBethany256]

I am really sorry to hear about all of this. I am a younger girl so I have some younger friends(18yrs-19yrs). I had one of my best friends get genital herpes and herpes located around the mouth. It was really hard for her. So I can only imagine what it's like for you. My best advice would be to move on. I know it's hard to hear that and hard for me to say it. My friend moved on and just accepted it and found a wonderful guy. I think the best key is not to give up that there is someone out there that loves you and would be so devoted to you and even if you do have herpes wouldn't mind. My friend told me it's so hard to accept it and get up the guts to tell him. And I think some people are ashamed of it. I know another one of my friend hides it and still sleeps with guys. Which in my view is totally messed up. Just like I said realize that there is someone out there for you. And so many women,men, and young people have gone through this. There is bound to be someone out there who has the same situation as you. Or like I said you could meet Mr. Perfect and he wouldn't even care if he loves you. Just don't give up on the chance of finding true love just because of some jerk who didn't inform you about this.
Good Luck! But then again I know you will find a guy. =)
-Christine